I enjoy writing about’Relationships’ as it is one of my favorite subjects. Honestly, today relationships have turned out to be similar to the’changing of clothing’ daily. However, if you aren’t able to foster or nurture one relationship, then you aren’t going to nurture another. Though, there’s one exception in my view to that which I just stated; it is not to target those relationships that are abusive, where the victim male or female is physically or mentally abused. We get to live life once, and it doesn’t imply that we cling to any relationship that is torturous in nature.
After conducting a short research study on the topic, it’s realized that different authors have made varying observations regarding this subject. Each writer expresses his/her own opinion as they perceive and define’relationship’.
Turn’on’ your Positive Behavior in Relationships
Author Carr in’Positive Psychology: The Science of Happiness and Human Strengths’ said that positive psychology is related to the positive emotions and affection in one’s relationship. This being one aspect, the other is the endurance and perseverance to work at your relationship. If you love and care about your partner then it is obvious that you will work towards sharing a positive connection.
Quit seeking Perfection in your partner
The understanding is important that we are human beings, and not one of us is perfect. Therefore, we can’t expect perfection in our partner. There’ll be sure behaviours that may irritate, or there may be some weaknesses that are too tough to accept, but the bottom line is you need to deal with those behaviors in a positive manner without humiliating or demeaning your partner. Rather than reacting impulsively to those behaviors, you can await the right time to talk with your partner about certain behaviors that seem bothersome. The confrontational talk has to be non-judgmental, so that your spouse is a good receiver to your concerns.
Overcome the Temptation
As we live in a new age it is now easy to change partners or proceed without giving a thought to your relationship. The biggest temptation nowadays appears to be’gap-fillers’. Gap-fillers are those’so-called buddies’ who create an entry on your life at just the wrong moment. If you face challenging times in your marriage or dating relationship, then it is normal that you have a friend who acts as your spouse replacement. He/She is full of all the good talks, assurances and might even want you to believe life is worth living, so why live with a spouse you are not pleased with?
However, if you think really deep, it can be analyzed or assessed that if you can’t live or put up with a single partner, then there isn’t any guarantee that you are able to develop a new spouse. The beginning days of a new and rosy relationship may appear to be the best, but you never know when the same relationship may turn to your worst.
The best advice once your marriage or relationship is not working would be to wait patiently and to give yourself and partner the opportunity to figure out whether it is truly over, and for genuine reasons so that you don’t get a chance to regret in life for missing out on the best.